Gen Z men are quitting dating

May 13, 2026

A growing share of young men have given up on dating, which is bad news for marriage, families, and long-term birth rates.

  • 62% of Gen Z men are not even looking to date, up from 51% in 2019.
  • Only 34% of Gen Z women have dropped out, so most women are still looking but cannot find interested men.
  • Gen Z men spend just $25 on a date, compared with $189 for the average American and $259 for millennials.
  • That $25 is roughly $300 in pre-tax money, showing how tight budgets are for young men.
  • The worry is fewer of these men will want to marry or have kids.

Outlook: If the trend continues, expect fewer marriages, fewer babies, and growing social strain between young men and women.

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